What is it that you really want when you want sex? Explore the four real reasons we have sex: for connection, for shared pleasure, to feel wanted, and for a sense of freedom. Inspired by Come Together by Emily Nagoski.

Masturbation isn’t a red flag—it’s part of a healthy, autonomous relationship.

I believe cuddle clubs are a beginner-friendly introduction to BDSM and the kink community. They can be a place where couples begin to explore non-monogamy or open their relationship.

Let’s be real—sometimes, you’re in the mood, but your body isn’t catching up. Or maybe you’re getting bored of the same old routine with your go-to toy. The good news? You don’t have to settle for uninspired solo sessions. A few small changes can make a big difference in how you experience pleasure. Here are five ways to switch things up and keep things feeling fresh.