Creating Space For The Erotic To Thrive
Sex coaching, sexuality education, and community for people exploring pleasure, identity, and intimacy
Pleasure
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Sensuality
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Intimacy
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Liberation
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Freedom
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Pleasure · Sensuality . Intimacy . Liberation . Freedom .
I know what it feels like to be confused about your sexuality, to crave connection with your body without shame, or to want more pleasure in your life, but not sure where to start. If you feel the same, book a free discovery call to explore more.
Create The Erotic was created as a space for individuals, partners, and groups to rediscover their true erotic selves - and to build sexually satisfying, pleasure-centered lives.
Ways We Can Work Together
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Explore your sexuality, desires, or self-pleasure with judgment-free, personalized guidance.
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Direct, on-going access. to sex coaching that works on your time without the need to schedule sessions.
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Whether you are navigating mismatched desires, non-monogamy, or deeper intimacy, this is a space to explore and reconnect.
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If you’re where to start or what works for your body, this will help you find what brings you joy.
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Interactive, playful, insightful spaces to connect with the community and learn more about consent, kink, sensuality, and more!
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Learn about anatomy, sexuality transmitted infections (STIs), barrier methods, and safer sex practices.
About Victoria
Hi, I’m Victoria (she/they), a Queer Nigerian Certified Sex Coach, Clinical Sexologist, Sexuality educator and founder of Create The Erotic.
I’ve always been interested in the ways we connect to our bodies and pleasure. I started working in the field of sexual and reproductive health in 2015! Since then, I’ve been on the journey of rediscovery my sexuality, defining sexual liberation, and working with people to start their journey.
I serve Black/African individuals who are either new to embracing the erotic and pleasure at the center of their lives or are seeking a community already engaged in this space.
I support those who no longer wish to hide parts of their lives and want to show up fully as themselves. I work with individuals, couples, and groups by sharing experiences they can learn from and providing actionable advice they can incorporate into their everyday lives.
My Identities:
Queer, Black, Nigerian, Ethically Non-Monogamous, Dancer, Writer, Virgo sun, Aquarius moon, Scorpio rising, Kinky, Sensual, Sultry, Creative, Switch, Spiritual, Teacher, Traveler, Life Path #5, Animation lover, Brat, Pleasure, Activist, Student, Daughter of Immigrants, Black Feminist
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Frequently asked questions
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Sex coaching is a goal-oriented process that helps individuals and couples enhance intimacy, overcome challenges, and build confidence. Unlike therapy, which explores past trauma or deep psychological issues, sex coaching focuses on education, communication, and actionable strategies for a fulfilling sex life.
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Sex coaching is for anyone looking to improve their sex life, whether navigating mismatched desire, exploring their sexuality, overcoming shame, or enhancing communication with a partner. It’s a shame-free, inclusive space for individuals and couples of all identities and relationship styles.
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Sessions are tailored to your needs and may include guided discussions, exercises, and education on intimacy, pleasure, and communication. They are client-led, confidential, and designed to help you achieve your personal goals.
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Yes! Coaching is available virtually via a secure video platform, making it accessible from anywhere.